I reconciled with my girlfriend after a fight, but seems not interested at all?

i had that argument with my girlfriend, and we fell out for almost month and a half without contacting each other. i had plans to call her , but she told me she had no plan to contact me as her principles is not to care about someone who doesnt care . I WOULD like to point out that after that period off being a way from each other, i met her friend one day, who volunteered to call her and end this issue, so we had that conversation which was normal as we havent mentioned any thing about the past . However , we had a talk few days ago and i decide to talk about it and what happened early , and i was chocked with her responses which indicate a person doesnt care, like she said it not that something interesting that we got back together and WHAT CHOCKED ME AND HEARTED ME ALOT is when i proceeded to ask her whether she wanted to me to keep calling her or stop calling , she was reluctant at the begining then she replied that i dont have to call her, i repeated the question again and she answered the same . I stopped for a while deciding whether i have to give up or ignore what she said , eventually i decided to carry on like i didnt hear any thing and i asked her to go out this week as i was a way for work , for my surprise she accepted verbally my invitation but she was smiling like she really insulted me . I felt quite insulted as i felt i should have let her go because she requested that . But because i really love her, i couldnt let myself to leave her , so i pretended to ignore what she was saying and after she accepted the invitation, we kept talking as normal and i expressed my love then left . NOW I started to think , does she really started to loss interest in our relationship OR that like denfsive mechanism to show me she is angry of not calling her during last period . DOES SHE WILL RESPECT ME after that , as i decided to be with her even though she mentioned to split up. IAM really obsessed and nead Professional views SPECIALLY FROM GIRLS POINT OF VIEW